Pre-Birthday bash

So tonight’s been lots of fun.

Met up with Nikki, Nichole and JonJon and we all went out to Mac Grill. It was SO yummy and there were some cuties there.

Also they came and sang and brought me birthday cake. It was embarrasing.

After that we all went and changed and then went and worked out.

Tomorrow I’m going to chapman to eat with people there, and then Saturday I’m having a birthday thing there.

Also hopfully taking my test tomorrow. I have to call the guy and find out.

Not too much else going on.

Laters all.

Great Night Out

So last night was a really long night for me. But it was TONS of fun!

I went out about 8ish and met Dustin, Ginny, Justin and two of Dustin’s friends at Jave Joes…. One of Dustin’s friends was from Irvine, so that was cool!

Anyways, we hung at Java’s tell like 10:30 or so and then went next door to the bar. Dustin and Girl got something and we all just kinda sat around there having a good old time.

I was kinda nervous at first about half the people only knowing half the people, but it all seemed to work out pretty good and everyone had a good time I think.

After that Ginny, Justin and I came back to my house. We were going to stop at Kum & Go, since it’s 24 hours and get stuff to drink. Well we get here and the fucking place is closed… That store has been 24 hours since it opened in 1996! What the fuck!

So we came to my house and my PU’s had stuff that was like 20 years old. We drank it anyways and it was actually really pretty good. 🙂

Anyways, we stayed in the hot tub for like 2 hours, ,and Ginny left somewhere in there early so Justin and I sat in there and talked and stuff. Then we came inside and…..

My dad was UP! Anyways, between the heat/COLD (Ie it was like -7 PLUS windchill last night) and then the heat again. I got REALLY dizzy, and fell over.

I hadn’t even really had that much to drink. So yeah, it was really embarrasing because my dad was there….

Anyways, I got up and Justin and I went up to my room and hung out for a while. Then I drove him home at like 4am. It was really good times, just like old times. I loved it. 🙂

Today I’m hanging out at the PUs all day.

Tomorrow is the Sibbel Christmas, sunday is the Black christmas, and I’m staying the night in Lenox. Hopefully to hang out with Jed and David. Monday I’m coming home and going to Ames to hang out with my old Company and Sarah. Then Monday night it’s hopefully Nikki and Beak.

Speaking of Nikki, I was supposed to be hanging out with her and taking her around. Well apparently she wants a break or something. i dunno. She called me just as we were getting into PC and was cutting out a lot. Well I’m hoping that Saturday she still wants to go out and I hope that Monday we can get out to a lot of the things that I wanted to do.

Anyways, talk to you all laters. Have a merry christmas, or whatever you celebrate or don’t.

::hugs:: everyone!

Edit:// I totally forgot, yesterday during the day I hung out with Oksana too! She was great, we went to Hickory park which is like the best place in the world to eat for cheap and REALLY yummy food! Then Shrek 2, which I totally like the first one better.

10 Minutes, and free cable!

So, as stated yesterday. Ty is a fucking dumbass.

I called the Cable company today, and after using a bit of social engineering. (you were supposed to have the last 4 of his social), 8 minutes of hold, and a total of 10 minutes on the phone. I got Free Standard basic calbe installed on the other two tv ports in the apartment.

Yeah, who said it could be done? That’s right, me… Who was RIGHT! Yet again! ME! Gee ! 🙂

Here’s a list of things to do with Nikki In Iowa so far:

Redlight

Java Joe’s

Hu Hot

Biagis or Centro — Which one?

Jordan Creek

Reimen (Butterfles – With Oksana, I hope she’ll be in town!)

Fleur Cinema

Skywalks – Art Center?

The Christmas holiday light thing…. The one KCCI talks about every year.

Anyone else have anything fun to do to show people how much fun Iowa is?! 😀

Alight, gotta go. It’s been a busy night here… The phone is actually RINGING!

Laters all!

Crazy Boy Scouts

Earlier this month, approximately 7,000 members of the Boy Scouts of America descended upon the ISU campus for their National Order of the Arrow Conference. For many students, their presence signified hypocrisy and squandered potential in an organization supposedly dedicated to the cultivation of young men.

Thanks to our proactive approach to combating child pornography, one of the conference head honchos — “Chief” Timothy Rand Wallace — was arrested for network sharing child pornography from a Memorial Union meeting room. He wasted no time, getting arrested a day before the conference even opened. The very next day, the BSA removed Wallace’s “Meet the Chief” profile from its Web site, although Google retains a cached copy. Interestingly enough, Google’s copy reports that Wallace hopes to teach high school (underage kids, mind you) political science, although his alleged child porn merit badge may end up hashing that dream. We must remember though that all people are innocent until proven guilty.

A few days after the arrest, I was walking to class when a scout looking for Music Hall approached me near the Student Services building. I could tell right away that in the 30 seconds required to walk him that way that he was going to tell me something crazy. The scout, who was around 15 years old, pointed to a bite mark on his arm and told me about a squirrel-chasing game he and his friends play.

He went on to tell me that he actually caught one of the squirrels and that he was so surprised and angered by its self-defensive bite that he snapped its neck. Then he dropped the bombshell: “My dad is real strong on eat whatever you kill.” That quote is forever burned into my mind. Maybe it was too early in the day to begin thinking about fried squirrel, but more likely I was just disappointed in such lack of principle. The Boy Scout Law clearly states that “A scout understands there is strength in being gentle … He does not harm or kill anything without reason.” The State of Iowa would grant him the responsibility of driving to and from school alone, and the BSA reckons its Order of the Arrow scouters the cream of the crop. Yet he boasts about breaking one of the commandments?

A friend from the class I was walking to that day had his own experience with visiting boy scouts. Just after getting home from work around 10:45 p.m., Ethan Newlin heard a knock on his door. Who was it? Why, it was seven uniformed scouters — claiming to be 17 years old — looking to score alcohol. Now that’s what I call “obedience,” as described in Boy Scout Law: “He obeys the laws of his community and country. If he thinks those rules and laws are unfair, he tries to have them changed in an orderly manner rather than disobey them.” Righto. It could have been worse, though — they could have been looking for 12-year- olds. The boy scouts were everywhere, roughly equaling students in number. While strolling through the MU food court one day, I saw a fairly large book sale going on. “Books are good,” I thought, so I decided to check it out. I was disappointed to see that it was just another boy scout fund-raiser, and immediately turned away, not wanting to give the BSA my money. Socially responsible spending dictates that one shouldn’t do business, if possible, with ignorant and discriminatory organizations.

The image of white boy scouts walking around campus in brightly colored, mass-produced Native American garb came to mind. How disrespectful! Imagine a white person trying to show respect for blacks for enduring centuries of slavery, followed by Jim Crow and racism, by donning black face paint and an afro. What the BSA doesn’t realize is that racism isn’t so much an event as it is a state of mind. The whole of racism — with any resulting action being physical or not, well-intentioned or malicious — is rooted in ignorance.

Furthermore, the BSA has a long history of discriminating against gays. This discrimination is not based on conduct or competence, but upon unchangeable status. The BSA has tried to hide behind the social and economic privatization of capitalism — what many Jim Crow supporters once used to defend barring blacks from lunch counters — but “what purports to be a constitutional defense of this discrimination actually amounts to nothing more than a grab bag of excuses each one more clearly pretextual than the last,” according to court documents in Roland D. Pool and Michael S. Geller v. Boy Scouts of America.

The unscrupulous behavior exhibited by many visiting scouts, who are supposed to be the green berets of the BSA, is not surprising given the organization’s weak foundation. Let it be a lesson to society: “A house divided against itself cannot stand.”

I really wish I had been able to go to the NOAC at ISU this time. That’s twice it’s been there and twice I’ve missed it. Damnit. It’s sad to see that they left such a negative impression on ISU though. 🙁

Fat People? Joke?!?!

Unashamed of their size, fed up with fat jokes, and angry at the national obsession with dieting, overweight activists are mounting a feisty protest movement against what it calls the medical establishment’s campaign against obesity.

“We’re living in the middle of a witch hunt and fat people are the witches,” said Marilyn Wann of San Francisco, a militant member of the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance. “It’s gotten markedly worse in the last few years because of the propaganda that fatness, a natural human characteristic, is somehow a form of disease.”

The association, known as NAAFA, holds its annual convention starting Wednesday in Newark, New Jersey, bringing together activists for social events and workshops on self-acceptance, political advocacy and the “fat liberation” movement.

“I hope we can be a viable force of sanity in the midst of hysteria,” said NAAFA spokeswoman Mary Ray Worley of Madison, Wisconsin. “I’ve found allies in all kinds of unexpected places, but overall there’s a lot of animosity. Some people act like obesity is the next worst thing after terrorism.”

The convention comes as the movement is scrambling to counter federal government pronouncements that obesity is a “critical public health problem” costing more than $100 billion and 300,000 lives per year.

Jeannie Moloo, an American Dietetic Association spokeswoman who counsels overweight clients at her nutrition practice in Sacramento, California, empathizes with the activists’ fight against bias, but says they should be wary of oversimplifying obesity-related health issues.

“Some people can be overweight all their lives and not end up with diabetes or heart disease or hypertension,” Moloo said. “But the majority are probably going to develop one of these life-altering conditions.”

Fat-acceptance groups were dismayed when federal officials announced last month that Medicare was discarding its declaration that obesity isn’t a disease. The policy change will likely prompt overweight Americans covered by Medicare to file medical claims for treatments such as stomach surgery and diet programs.

“Obesity is not a disease,” insisted Allen Steadham, director of the Austin, Texas-based International Size Acceptance Association. “All this does is open the door for the diet and bariatric surgery industries to make a potentially tremendous profit.”

Most fat-acceptance activists endorse the concept of eating healthy food and exercising regularly, but they oppose any fixation on losing weight and contend that more than 95 percent of diets fail. They also decry the rapid growth of stomach-shrinking surgery; the number of such procedures has quadrupled to 100,000 annually since 1998.

Wann depicts bariatric surgery as “stomach amputation” that imposes anorexia on patients and exposes them to long-term risks. Kelly Bliss, a self-described “full-figured fitness instructor” from Lansdowne, Pennsylvania, predicts that future generations will disapprovingly look back on stomach surgery as “comparable to lobotomies.”

Bliss, who coaches clients by phone and in fitness classes, subscribes to a philosophy called “health at every size” — preaching that health, fitness and self-esteem can be achieved independent of weight.

“There’s a war on obese people, and I’m treating the casualties – people whose hearts are being ripped out,” Bliss said.

NAAFA and others have tried to combat what they see as rampant discrimination against fat people, but progress has been sporadic. Southwest Airlines, for example, resisted protests targeting its policy of requiring large passengers to purchase a second ticket if they can’t fit in a single seat.

“People want to fight for their rights, but there’s a lot of shame involved,” Steadham said. “It takes a whole lot of determination to stick through it to the end.”

A few cities, including San Francisco, explicitly outlaw weight discrimination. Michigan is the only state to do so, but its Civil Rights Department said only five of 1,696 job discrimination complaints filed in 2003 involved weight.

Walter Lindstrom, a San Diego attorney specializing in weight-discrimination cases, said overweight plaintiffs usually must prove that acts of bias against them are covered by federal laws prohibiting discrimination against disabled people.

“These cases are more difficult from a proof standpoint, and also because you’re dealing with a very unpopular class of clients,” Lindstrom said. “Juries are generally disgusted with your average size-related plaintiff. You have to get past that, and have them see the plaintiff as someone with a true medical problem.”

Many fat-acceptance activists were heartened by this year’s publication of “The Obesity Myth” by University of Colorado law professor Paul Campos, who contends that diet promoters, drug companies and weight-loss surgeons have whipped up an irrational panic over weight.

Campos shares many of the activists’ views but says their effectiveness has been limited.

“The movement has found itself marginalized by drawing its membership and leadership from the far extreme of obesity,” he said. “It will be more successful if it can attract the two-thirds of Americans who are being told by the government that they weigh too much — the I-want-to-lose-20-pounds crowd who are starting to feel a certain amount of resentment from the constant haranguing they’re getting.”